Monday, November 12, 2012

GREAT NEWS!

Hi Bloggers,

I do have to apologize for the long time in between posts!  A lot has happened in the last month and a half.

After receiving our referral late August, we have been patiently waiting to be told that we were submitted to court, for courts to re-open (they take a long vacation mid August - late September), and to be issued a court date.

Well we got a call on the afternoon of October 24th (I was concerned when I first received it, that maybe some paperwork was missing and they needed us to re-send some things).  We were so surprised to be told that our US agency staff missed being notified that we had been submitted to court (the date is still unknown when that happened).  So we had been submitted and issued a court date of November 6th!  I was so shocked, happy, excited, and just could not believe it!...and reality set in that we had little time to prepare for our trip.  But really...none of that mattered.  We were going to meet our son!!!!!!!

Daniel was out of town the week before we were to leave...my Mom was a life-saver...she helped me in so many ways get ready for our trip...thanks Mom!  We took care of donation shopping and our last minute travel shopping was in full swing...not to mention booking a flight (whew!...thanks Mel!)

By the way, thanks to all who helped with the donations!  We are so grateful to you for helping us collect these items.  They were so needed at the care center and were truly appreciated!  We couldn't have done it without you.

So on November 4th, 2012 (Adoption Sunday), we were on our way to Ethiopia to meet our son.  Wow, what a LONG flight...but it was so worth it.  We arrived on November 5th (Daniel's birthday), and went straight to meet our son.  What a sweet time!  And let me tell you...he is so precious, sweet, cute, and such a good baby!  We know he was meant to be apart of our family!

We attended our court hearing, all went well there!  We are still awaiting the "official court decree", but hope to hear soon that we have that so we can start getting together the documents to be submitted to the US Embassy.

After court we picked up our little man and spent the rest of our stay spending time with him at our hotel.  He has the sweetest personality.  I cannot wait till the girls can meet him...what a special time that will be!

So Thursday afternoon we had to take him back to the care center.  We were thinking that he'd easily fit in our carry on...but figured we'd be frowned upon and may end adoptions forever if we did that.  So what an extremely hard thing to do...to leave him.  But we just think of the day we'll be reunited...and praying it won't be too long from now.  We miss him so much...and it already feels we've been away for a long time.  I know he's being loved and cared for while we're away from him...and that helps.  But at any given moment I may burst into tears...missing him so.

We have been forever changed from this trip.  I know the Lord is working...on what He is leading us to...I'm not exactly sure yet.  Just trusting Him and keeping faith.  He's had this process in His hands from the beginning...He's definitely got the rest of it under control.

We were able to meet some other couples while in country, also adopting.  It was good to make new friendships...and I hope we'll be able to stay connected throughout the rest of our process and even after!

What's next:  When we receive the court decree our agency can begin gathering the few documents to be submitted to the US Embassy.  From there Embassy reviews it, investigates, and then issues an interview date for us.  This is the date we await...the pick up trip!  Time frame varies...but we are definitely praying for sooner than later!  It will most likely be 8 weeks or more...but hoping closer to the 8 week mark.

We have a lot of preparations to finish up...so hopefully we can stay busy with those things...as well as with Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up our calendar is starting to fill up quickly.  So I'm praying this time will pass quickly with everything else that is going on.

Thanks to all of you who have been praying and thinking of us.  We still need them as these days are extremely tough.

Faithfully praying,
Daniel & Heather

Thursday, September 13, 2012

THE TIME HAS COME!!

We have a huge announcement!!!!  On August 29th, 2012 we received what we've been waiting for:  a referral of a little 2-month-old boy!!!  We are super excited to have a son (who is now almost 3-months-old)!  We, unfortunately, cannot share any other information besides that right now.  But wanted to give you this exciting news and thank you so much for your prayers during this part of our process.

A lot will wonder:  what's next?  The staff in Ethiopia are getting all the paperwork ready to be submitted to court.  When it is ready, it will be submitted, then a judge has to review it and issue a court date, then we get notified and we go for court.  This is the actual adoption court hearing, though we won't be able to bring our little one home on the first trip. =(  All paperwork has to go through US Embassy for processing and visa, etc.   All of that has to be complete before we can bring him home.  The hopeful timeline is:  Court--late November/early December; Home--January/February.

Please continue to pray for us during this time...it's hard seeing pictures and not being able to be with our little man and hold him!  Pray that God would expedite this paperwork and that it go smoothly!  We know His hands are already on it and with it, and it's all in His control!

If you would please pray for our little man, "G".  Yes, he does have a name (though we are unable to share it).  We are still trying to decide on a first name and will keep his given name as his middle name.  For now, we're introducing him as "G".

Waiting Impatiently,
Daniel & Heather

Friday, August 31, 2012

TOTALS!



Hi All,

Just wanted to give you a quick update to let you know the outcome of the car wash fundraiser.

The total raised from the car wash is...(drum roll please)...$1,568.00!!!!

We were so blessed, thankful, and shocked at the total.  We want to thank all that came out to support and who gave to our adoption...we are so truly humbled by your giving!  We also want to thank all of our friends who came out and helped us...we could absolutely not have done it without you!!  What a blessing you are to our family!

More updates to come soon.

Thankful for His Many Blessings,
Daniel & Heather

Thursday, August 16, 2012

THIS IS THE WEEK

Hi all!
 Just wanted to remind you that this Saturday, August 18th from 9 am - 2 pm we will be having a Car Wash Fundraiser at East 74 Restaurant in Indian Trail.  All donations will go directly toward our adoption expenses.  We hope to get to meet a lot of people (blog followers, those interested in adoption, those in the process of adopting, or maybe ones that are unaware of adoption or the costs involved).   Thank you in advance for coming out and showing your support!  There is a link to a video below that you need to check out, take a couple minutes and view it.

See ya Saturday!!!!

143,000,000 minus 1


Wednesday, August 1, 2012

THE LATEST & FUNDRAISER EVENT



Happy August everyone!  I somehow missed blogging in July...sorry about that Lugo adoption blog followers!  Here's the latest:

7/2/12-Our dossier reached Ethiopia (where it undergoes translation-which should be about done now)
7/3/12-Fingerprinted at USCIS
7/23/12-Received USCIS approval in the mail

We are still "WAITING IMPATIENTLY" on a referral.  There have been a lot of referrals happening through our agency recently, so it could be soon!  Just please continue to pray for us as we wait, and also for wisdom when that referral comes.

Thank you so much for continuing to read our blog, the many inquiries on our process, and wanting to stay updated on our adoption journey!  We truly appreciate it and thank you for caring for us!  See below for an opportunity for you to come out and support our adoption in person!  Jot the date on your calendar so you won't forget...if you're like me, it is a must!  But I'll be sure to post the fundraiser date again in case you don't use a calendar!


LOCAL FUNDRAISER SCHEDULED:

Date/Time:  Saturday, August 18th from 9:00 am - 2:00 pm
Location:     East 74 Restaurant
                   13801 Indian Trail Fairview Rd., Indian Trail, NC
Type:          CAR WASH--FOR DONATIONS 
                          Donations will go toward our adoption expenses.

We would love for you to come out and let us wash your vehicles!
Please feel free to share this info with friends, family, co-workers, or anyone you know!   

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

UPDATE -- MADE IT TO THE BOTTOM

It is hard to believe it has almost been a month since our announcement post!  Well, here's where we've been:  ON TOP OF A MOUNTAIN OF PAPERWORK!  But I'm excited and happy to announce that we have made it to the bottom and we are DONE!!

Friday 6/15--we received our finalized Home Study
Saturday 6/16--we sent off our I-600A to USCIS (which they've received--confirmed by tracking!)
Saturday 6/16--we got our dossier notarized--thanks to a special birthday boy--you know who you are!
Monday 6/18--compiled our dossier and agency contract (along with the fees--gulp!) and sent it off!

I can say that the heavy pressure I was experiencing in my chest is now gone--whew! (Heather)

We now are in that phase,  I (Heather) am so horrible at...WAITING.  Waiting on a referral...but know the day will come!

This past week I, (Heather) was having a horrible time at being patient, waking up to the realization that this could be a LONG process--to the point of not feeling well.  Then I was reminded...who am I to tell the Lord when to give us a child?  He has it all planned out, and even though I want it NOW, He knows who that child is and when they'll need us--He knows what is best.

Please keep us in your prayers as we...WAIT.  I think it will be the hardest part!

We'll keep you posted and you'll hear from us soon about a local fundraiser that is in process!

Thanks for reading,
Daniel & Heather



Saturday, May 26, 2012

WE ARE PREGNANT - KINDA!



Our Adoption Journey!


What do you get when you combine two parents that adore each other, two crazy and beautiful girls (Izzy and Sofi), a Basset Hound (Bumper), and a Goldfish (Orangey) = ROOM FOR ONE MORE!


God started us down the path to adoption a long time ago with just a thought, but over time that simple thought has become our hearts desire as a family.  Our incredible God has already open and shut many doors throughout the process to get us to what we know is the perfect place for our family and his glory.  We have already begun the process to adopt from Ethiopia!  The road to bring home our child is still uncertain in our eyes, but we know that this is the path that God has chosen for us to walk down as a family.  Of course there will be much more to come on the process (the aspects we can share) as the days pass, but we wanted to formally announce being "paper pregnant" to all of our family and friends.  I am sure there will be many ways over the coming months that we will need help from our family and friends.  I can think of two ways right now: 1. Pray.  2.  Pray for us some more.

Daniel, Heather, Isabel, and Sofia